Would you say that you prefer kinky, or are you a fetishist?

What started off as a kink may have become a fetish, because it could be that just by trying something new, it has led you to discover a trigger that brought you such increased pleasure. So naturally you would have tried it again, and again, as you realised its importance in your satisfaction. That one thing that took you beyond your usual levels of satisfaction has now become an essential to your absolute pleasure -m a fetish. It’s no longer a kink it is a fetish. Of course, there are overlaps of what was a kinky fantasy and what is a fetish, but where the kink or two is just a bit of fun that adds to the overall experience, a fetish is something that is needed to get the real turn on at all. Without that specific trigger no one has flicked the switch. It is an essential.

If it’s not main stream then it’s a kink

Of course, one man’s kink is another man’s norm, so it does all depend on your standpoint in the first place. So, if we think about kinky, how you perceive it may be all about how you like your regular sexual encounters generally speaking. If you are a strait-laced missionary kind of guy, then anything that deviates from that may be considered outrageous by you. But we hardly think we are talking to a guy like that on here! So, maybe you just like to try a bit of this or that when you are with one of these sexy Manchester escorts. Keeping things fresh in the bedroom, or anywhere else that you like to indulge, your initial experiences of the special services alluded to by escort sites, has led you to adult toys and before long onto latex body suits. Soon it is time to potentially bring on the whips and riding crops and you are exploring the early stages of BDSM. You started off just looking to discover unexplored corners of extra services at a premium Manchester escorts agency, simply curious wondering what it held for you in pleasure and increased satisfaction, and soon you were up and ready for all things kinky. Whatever it is you are into, you are not committed to the degree that if it’s not like that then you would give it a miss. If that is your feeling, then you are just liking to play and explore all the deviations and options available to you with experienced escorts such as those to be found at Manchester Sugarbabes – if you ask the right questions! But you just like it kinky, it is not a fetish.

When it’s a fetish nothing else will do

But! If you had that light bulb moment when you recognised that a certain something was the thing that inspired you, the way that you liked it best, then that thing has become a fixation, your fetish. Or maybe you have been a slow burner, always had a desire to really play with your lover’s feet, to suck her toes, to caress and lick, to feel them against every part of your body, or have her trample your face with her feet, but never had a partner who looked as if she might be willing to go down this route. Foot fetishes are a great example, because there are believed to be more foot fetishists in the world than with any other fetish interest. Until now maybe you left those thoughts smouldering, but something has fanned those embers into flames. Once you have tried then you know that this body part is an intrinsic part of your sexual identity and for you the trigger, the being, of your pleasure. For those of you not into foot worship, get ready for the news that devotees can be divided into those that go for clean or dirty feet. On the whole it is the male of the species that is prone to foot fetishism, although the eminent Doctor Freud says the toes are possibly a penis substitute. Even during that seemingly chaste dinner date, a talented and experienced escort can be very active using her feet and toes under the privacy provided by a long tablecloth seeking out you and your erogenous zones. It does not have to be feet, because whatever your fetish, the principle is the same.

When you book with Manchester Sugarbabes, don’t be shy to ask for the escorts who specialise in fetishes and briefly explain your personal preference in this area, let us know what does it for you - virginal white underwear, leather or PVC, or if you like to watch her writhing about in a mud pool. We are all individuals after all.